I discovered the video below more than three years ago. It really stuck with me, and I knew there would eventually be a time to share it in a blog post. That time has finally arrived.
To place this in the context and history of GYFG: I started publicly sharing my monthly financial reports about three and a half years ago (January 2015). In that first monthly financial report, I shared my Big Hairy Audacious Goal of achieving a net worth of $10M and a monthly income of $50,000/month. Pretty “BH&A,” as back then our net worth was just shy of $200K and our monthly income was projected to average ~$15K/month (or $178K annually).
But fast forward to 2018 and our net worth is ~$740K (as of March 2018), and our monthly income is projected to average ~$37K/month ($440K annually). This represents an increase so far of 379% in net worth and of nearly 250% in income.
I’m establishing this context with a purpose; bear with me…
One of the things I love about blogging and the internet is the web that gets woven together, which is between bloggers and readers, but also between the three “me’s:” past, present and future me. In a reflective post like this, I get to see all the connections, and I am amazed how this blog has allowed me to connect the dots looking backward – I can’t imagine any other method that could have done so as powerfully and accurately. Memory can fail by forgetting specific details and filling in gaps with half-truths and whole lies…or wishful thinking. But documentation and reflection tell the truth, and are imperative to growth and learning.
A few comments that stand out from that first financial report in response to my BHAG are:
Steve was like a lot of readers who took the time to comment, and use the word “lofty” to describe my goal. I got the sense that many of them were skeptical that I would ever reach that “lofty” goal (check out the comments from my guest submission at Financial Samurai). Steve did have accurate insight on what it would take for a probable chance of reaching these goals, though, and if you read through the comments you would also note that I was indeed already planning for a C-Suite position. I first planted this C-Suite seed in May 2012 in a letter I wrote myself from ten years in the future. Before this blog was ever even a thought, that was when I future-casted my vision for my life looking ten years ahead (a great exercise that I highly recommend to you).
Another comment on my BHAG:
At the time I felt like Paul was being a bit condescending with his comment “I hope it’s backed by some math and not pie in the sky dreaming.” He had a point, though, since the path is all math. I think I felt slightly offended at the time, because I had yet to develop “the path” and interpreted Paul as telling me that I was probably a crackpot.
Then again, Paul doesn’t know me: I’m not all that offended to be considered someone with insane thoughts or ideas. I love having outrageous goals that most would think are out of the realm of possibility. Doubt from others acts as jet fuel to my ambition. Also, unlike Paul, I know myself: in laying out my plan, I had confidence in my ability to develop that path, and also to make it work. In my mind, I was just working out the details still!
Thus, I did share my twenty-year plan to achieve $10M in net worth about a month later.
These are just two comments of many. There were a lot more when I announced this goal on this blog and others that I guest posted on. Announcing something this big naturally instigates a ton of questions, and a lot of head scratching. In my opinion, that’s because most people think in a linear fashion. But I was setting exponential goals, not linear ones. It’s difficult as humans to wrap our brains around exponential progress.
Readers posed some really good questions to ponder:
- Why do you need that much money?
- Will earning $600,000 per year really make you any happier than earning the ~$178,000 per year you currently make (back in 2015)?
- How do you plan to get to $10M when you’re barely pushing $200K?
- What will you do with all that money as you get older?
- How will you spend $50,000 a month in income?
To answer “why” is to share several motivations that led me to such an ambitious goal:
– I wanted a goal that I believed was achievable in the timeframe I set (twenty years) but was also challenging.
– I wanted an amount that would allow my family to live well and give well.
– As I’ve shared in two recent interviews (The Mastermind Within Podcast, FIRE Drill Podcast), I chose a number that would be big enough to allow me and anyone in my life to have anything they desire.
– I wanted to differentiate myself from the thousands of other personal finance bloggers out there.
– Most of all I wanted to generate enough wealth to get to a point where money was no object.
This post builds on the epiphany I shared last week, which was if you’re not happy and healthy, then what is the point of being wealthy?
What if Money Were No Object?
Take a moment to watch the short video with the Alan Watts voiceover below:
What If Money Was No Object ~ Alan Watts from Edgar Alves on Vimeo.
I think this video really captures what life should be about, which to me is pursuing the things that make you happy and bring joy to your life. In the context of money, ultimately it’s not about the money itself, it’s about the optionality that the money provides. Money is the means, not the end.
Mr. Watts says “better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing than a long life spent in a miserable way” and I couldn’t agree more, although with one small tweak to his philosophy: I think there is a balance to be achieved, in that it is okay to make sacrifices early on and live life like most won’t for a few years in order to live the rest of life like most can’t (to be clear, I am not saying to forgo all the things you like to have and do along the way, just to be intentional and strategic in getting this done ASAP – or “get rich fast”).
I do differ with Mr. Watts when he says to “forget the money.” I get his point, but the reality is that we live in a capitalistic society, and certain skill sets are more rewarded than others. If you have BHAGs – one might even say lofty – you do well to consider which skill sets have a higher probability of getting you to those. No interest or stamina in that path? Perhaps the goals will have to change. In my opinion, this is simply reality, which is always a good thing to embrace. Lucky for me, my skill set (coupled with extreme hustle and willingness) aligns with my goals. Regardless, the important part of the message is don’t make the pursuit of money and wealth your sole purpose in life as it will lead to a very disappointing ending. Use money as the tool that it is in order to live life by design – your design, not that of anyone else. Although I focus on money in this blog…cause it’s a personal finance blog, hello, plus I do love this topic…it’s actually not really about the money (micro), it’s about The Money (macro)!
The last thing I want to do (or want you to do) is to put my head down for 40-50 years, only to look up and realize that most of life has passed me by, along with the physical ability to do the things I dreamed of doing “one day.” This is why I so adamantly preach the “get rich fast” philosophy. I do prioritize my time to fit the things I love doing into my life now, but I always have an eye on tomorrow, and I’m working The Money to get there. I’m intentional with my earning, my spending and my investing, and want the same for you. Some of you might get lucky and really enjoy your job (as I do). For others, it will only be the means to a much greater end. Either way, you can still do this without falling into the pit of meaningless and despair described by Mr. Watts. Just make sure you are not ONLY focusing on the money!
I know this post may seem to be presenting a bit of a contradiction in its message. But it really is not: that’s because I believe that financial freedom is the surest path to living life on your terms. Figure out your “why” and ensure that your wealth building endeavors are as strategic as hell, so they are not at the sacrifice of being fulfilled, happy, and healthy. This is what it means to be a Freedom Fighter. This is the trail I hope to blaze in my own journey, and for you to follow as well.
Questions from Alan Watts for us all to ponder:
- What would you like to do if money were no object?
- How would you really enjoy spending your life?
- What makes you itch?
- What sort of a situation would you like?
- What do you desire?
These are the same questions I will be pondering as I work on part two of this series. In a future post, I plan to share with you what life will look like for the GYFG family when money is no object. I will also share how we balance living and enjoying life today while working towards and designing our future life.
Your turn! What would you do and what would your life look like if money were no object? What steps are you taking now to reflect that?
– Gen Y Finance Guy
What do you do now to make 37k per month?
First, that income is combined between my wife and me. It comes from several sources:
(1) I earn $300K as a C-Suite executive
(2) Mrs. GYFG earns $120K working in Real Estate
(3) The remaining $20K is miscellaneous income.
You know what’s funny, is later today, I’m heading over to my parent’s house with my sisters, and while we don’t usually talk about money, I thought back to “How can I make my life so big that the others around me are taken care of” – EXACTLY what you had said on my podcast 🙂
People hate because they don’t have those same thoughts. I personally don’t have a number, though $1M by 30 keeps popping up in my head.
After $1M, it’s almost just a game. I don’t need much to live on (just give me a bathroom, a kitchen, and a place to sit 🙂 ), but the ability to do things that normal people can’t is what I’m after… the ability to pay for some of my sister’s college, to give some money to charity, etc.
Looking forward to part 2!
Great post, it really hit home for me as I’m on the same path as you are. For me I don’t have BHAG defined like yourself (maybe I should) but to be able to provide for myself and my loved ones is my goal. To set up so that my next generation can really have choices on what they want to do what really matters to them.
I’m fortunate enough to have a job I like with an income that’s sufficient to live life, enjoy life and invest the surplus. I live now but continue to build a better future every day by improving myself either mentally or physically to be the best I can be. For myself and for my family.
Thank you for reminding me of the above.
You are very welcome Mr. Robot!
Thank you for reading.
Honestly my life won’t change much when money is no object. Because I already am doing what I would do. The fi part is more of a protection if things suddenly change. Nothing lasts forever.
That is amazing – to be living your life exactly as you would under FI is a great place to be. As we move closer to FI, we continue to either shift the time allocation, with more time allocated to exactly the way we want to spend it. We also have been layering in aspects of our desired lifestyle as we have the means – balancing the present with our future goals.
Your approach is helping us manage our anxiety over getting started late to save money for our kids’ college
While I want them to work toward paying for their schooling – I would much rather be their bank than have them manage the stress of graduating with a massive saddle of debt
Couldn’t agree more – it needs to be written down, thought out, re-thought and constantly tweaked
Thanks for all of your help
OurFatChef – I’m stoked you are getting so much value and calm from the blog. It exists to help people and this validation made my day.
Wow, talk about lighting a fire under someone. You my friend are so inspiring. I’ve always said a lot of personal finance personalities talk about pinching pennies, and ducking Starbucks, but what the hell is that going to do for building wealth.
Very inspiring, i’m pretty confident you will hit your BHAG. Congrats!
You won’t find the extreme frugality conversation taking place on my corner of the internet. We preach relative frugality and believe that extreme frugality is for the birds. We focus on income as the primary tool for building rapid wealth in the shortest time possible. There is no limit to the income side of the equation but there is a natural floor to how low you can cut your expenses.
Thanks for stopping by!
I don’t know if I would be motivated as much. I think I’d become lazier. It’s easy to say I’d stay the same, but I’m not sure if that is 100% true. I think one thing is I would try a lot harder to visit friends and family more and find common things to do with them. 🙂
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